Hi.... it's been quite sometime since i updated my blog.... during this past week..there has been alot of things happening in my life...some good some bad......and it just made me realize that i am not a good person....not a good friend....not a good son....not a good brother....and not a good lover
to all readers...please forgive me for wht i have done or for what i have not done.....
please take a few minutes to answer this...
which one will follow?...... your heart or your thoughts (mind) ?.....and please give me a reason of your choice (why u choose it and why not?...thanx....it'll mena alot to me...muax..love u all
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Hey babe, what ever ups and downs you're going through right now, I'm sure you'll be able to pull through them.
Coming from a self-proclaimed bitch, my comments might not be valid or of much use to you, but here's what I think...
Sometimes when you're too preoccupied with what's going on with yourself and not what's going on around you, some things will slip you by. You won't realise it till it's too late.
My personal opinion : follow my mind. Because I've been in too much trouble and too deep shit to trust my heart completely all the time.
Not saying that you can't follow your heart sometimes. You need to have heart in everything that you do. Otherwise, why bother?
But just not all the time. Because too much of following your heart will make you become too self-involved and preoccupied with yourself and leave no time for others.
I love the people around me too much to hurt them or make them not love me. So, sometimes your mind needs to be in control for you to know that not everything your heart tells you is right for everyone around you, even though it is for you.
You take care, babe. Keep on blogging so that I can still be in touch with what's going on in your life even though we don't see each other that much. Muax!
I follow where my Cock leads me to(perhaps to another cock!) Wuhahaha
Saw ya in Summit with a cute boy!
It is a grey zone, dear Jimmy. In pursuit of something which have no negative consequences upon others, yes, you may follow your heart, notwithstanding that it might be a tougher path while fulfilling your imagination.
Whereas, when others feeling and benefits are taken into account, we must know that one still lives in a interaction world, in which one's action, directly or indirectly will somehow affect another. Hence, rationality is called upon before decision is made. It might goes against one's wish but hey, we've got to live it, unless you can selfishly live in your happiness.
Remember: IMAGINATION may rock, but REALITY still rules.
rgds
shine
I agree with shine (even if he is sometimes out of the world) - Imagination rocks, but reality rules. I suppose the only way to approach any issues or problems is still by doing a list of the good and bad. Then, think about what is right and what is wrong. Include the people that is related to the problems and prioritize who comes first and why.
Sometimes the heart wants what it wants - but doesn't the heart always just want something else or something more at the end???
I suppose at the end, it's better to let your mind tell you what to do - what is right or wrong is always subjective. It just depends on what you think is right, and how you approach it with your feelings.
Stick to your friends. They can help alot.
jimmy...
my take is ... go away for a while, when ur in a pit, stop digging. Rest and take your mind away. You are not a air traffic control tower, no planes will fall from the sky if you dont decide!
Well, might sound bit far fetched but no harm trying the alternatives. Whatever it is, we are here for you.
p/s : take us along for the holiday too. =>
Let your heart give you all the ideas, bue let your thoughts figure out which one is the most realistic out of them all.
Shine: Don't lah disteb Jimmy's cute boy. So many other cute ones at Summit what. Drool on them lah. Especially the one who looks like the maintainance guy. Cute yeah!
That guy is so f*king Hot!!!
He hardly looks at people, but now he glances at me laah cos I make it so obvious right infront of him. *I screamed beside him, and he looked at me*
rgds
shine
Jimmy... in your condition right now, neither your heart nor your mind is 'working' properly.... so, listen to Alvin.. take the time off everything...
right decision making = always with your mind.... that's why when u r emotional, mad, happy, angry.... your thoughts tend to listen to your heart... ending up with sumthing like this, "i know its wrong, but its 4 ur own good", "i'm sorry, but i did this bcoz i love u", and many more... also we ended up hurting people we love the most... u have to remember, whatever we do with the decision from our heart or mind, others will always FEEL with the HEART... so, there's no such thing as hurting your loved ones... if u hurt them, means u didn't love them enuff!!
the thoughts and the heart should be synchronized... when u r confused, goes with the thought... as the anatomy rules, the head is always above the heart...
follow your heart.... you can never go wrong. ;) Mind will continue to wonder.....
It's always good to follow ur mind. it's more intelect. However for myself I will always tend to follow my heart more than my mind. Because of these brought me a lot miserables experiences. So, my advice is not to follow your heart too much and make urself down...
Not sure wat is happening on u but I know you can overcome it. It's just matter of time. Say it out and think wisely :)
I can't help you like others and not sure what is going on so just my 2 cents... everything will be fine k... ;)
Hey Jimmy,
Must admit I fall into the same category that you think you are as well. I haven't been a good anthing to anyone lately but then again, there's just so much that you can do or satisfy anyone. Haven't been to the gym for a long long time here and hoping to at least find time to freaking get back in shape. Hehehe.
And congrats on your attachment! And this is sincere. :)
Cheers!
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